Mentoring Services
Walk alongside and guide women out of the pit of betrayal and despair into the light of Jesus Christ to achieve Truth, Safety and Peace.
No matter what he chooses to do, I am here for you to get your life back!
I'm so very sorry that this happened to you. And I am very glad you are here.
Whether you have been betrayed by your husband's (or partner's) porn use, affair(s), physical and/or emotional abuse or you are living with an addict of any kind or an Intimacy Anorexic®; I have deep empathy and compassion for what you are going through and what you are feeling. I understand the pain, confusion and dysfunction all of these situations cause. It is very hard and it is overwhelming & traumatizing. It effects all areas of your life.
I have been through it all. I learned how to heal through it. Now, I am trained and certified in the trauma healing journey that is needed for healing your bleeding heart, body, mind and soul in all of these situations. I have taken this journey and I know it well; what to do AND what not to do. My passion is to guide you to Truth, Safety and Peace with the right type of help in a quicker, less painful way than I experienced. No matter where you are in your journey.
I would be honored to be your guide and walk with you as you heal. I will hold your hand every step of the way!
4 Stages of Recovery

Road map to achieve Truth, Safety and Peace.
**4 Stages of Recovery from BraveHearts.
Convenience for you, because YOU deserve it!
Go through your Healing Journey with less stress...
How To Sign Up!
1. Contact
Contact Allison by the contact form on the Contact page and indicate that you are interested in mentoring services.
2. Schedule Discovery Call
I will send you a link to schedule your Free Discovery Call. (See Details below)
3. Choose Mentoring Plan
Choose the mentoring plan that best fits your needs.
4. Make Payment
I will send you a link for the secure Checkout page to make your online payment.
5. Schedule Your 1st Session
I will send you a link to start scheduling your sessions to start to your healing journey!
1-on-1 Mentoring
A unique experience! This is personalized to meet your unique needs to put an end to this pain! I will learn about where you are in your healing process and what your goals and needs are. Some of the topics that you can learn and grow in are listed below. As well as much more possibilities!! I encourage you to think about mentoring for about year or longer to get the healing you deserve.


Use the arrows to slide the picture to show the "before" and "after".
- Greater understanding of Betrayal Trauma & how it's affecting you
- Greater understanding of addiction & recovery
- Greater understanding of Intimacy Anorexia
- Greater understanding of Disclosure
- Greater understanding of emotional abuse
- Emotionally healthier; learn to identify your feelings & what to do with them
- Learn about triggers and strategies to lessen the impact
- Learn how to overcome self-doubt
- Learn how to have a voice
- Learn about boundaries & how to set & keep them
- Learn how to practice self-Care
- Learn about rebuilding trust
- Learn how & when to forgive
- Identify lies & learn truth to combat them
- Learn how to identify and process past trauma
- Identify what is toxic in your relationship and how to process and respond in healthy ways
- Learn healthy anger and grieving cycles
- Learn manipulation tactics and how to respond to them
- Learn about trauma bonds
- Restore Spiritual growth
- Much more possibilities!
1-on-1 Mentoring Options
Basic
Longest Journey
$200 Monthly
Private Zoom meeting
4 sessions (1 each week)
30 minutes each session
Popular
Standard
Reasonable Journey
$350 Monthly
Private Zoom meeting
4 sessions (1 each week)
1 hour each session
Premium
Most in-depth Journey
$495 Monthly
Private Zoom meeting
4 sessions (1 each week)
90 minutes each session
Accepts major credit cards, debit cards, apple pay. Can accept bank transfers at request
**Once you sign up, your plan will auto renew monthly until cancelled. Your price stays the same until you end the mentoring services, even if I change my starting prices. Unless you change to a different plan.
**Cancel anytime with 30 day notice. Terms & Conditions
Group Mentoring
I guide and walk with a group of women through curriculum on a healing journey to end this pain together! Being connected with a group of like-minded, like hearted women with similar stories builds healthy relationships. It can help you feel validated, supported and breaks isolation to not feel alone. All of which are so important. You can learn so much from each other and typically being in a group can help speed up the healing process!
Groups Available:
Time: 2 hours once a week
Length: weekly for 12 months
Small Group: Limited to 8 women
Starting:
Contact Allison to show interest in next group.
Or fill out quick group survey of when you would like to see a group start.
Together we will walk through the curriculum Betrayal & Beyond by Pure Desire & the book Moving Beyond Betrayal: The 5-Step Boundary Solution for Partners of Sex Addicts.
PLUS you get access to my professional insights along the way!
- Greater understanding of Betrayal Trauma & how its affecting you
- Greater understanding of Sex addiction & recovery
- Greater understanding of Disclosure
- Emotionally healthier; learn to identify your feelings & what to do with them
- Learn how to practice Self-care
- Learn about boundaries & make a boundaries plan
- Identify lies & learn truth to combat them
- Learn about rebuilding trust
- Learn how & when to forgive
- Learn healthy anger & grieving cycles
- Restore Spiritual growth
- Much more!


Use the arrows to slide the picture to show the "before" and "after".
**New groups will open at different times throughout the year. If you sign up for a group and it isn't starting for more than 2 weeks; I offer weekly support at the group time for those who sign up until the group starts; no extra cost.
**I will start extra groups if needed. Please contact me if you have an interest in joining a group that is not listed.
Click the button to take a quick survey about what day & time you would like to see available for a group.
Group Mentoring Options
Group
Shared Journey
$55 Monthly
Zoom meeting
Small Group of up to 8 women
meet once a week
2 hour each session
REcommended
Group Plus
Shared Journey Plus 1-on-1
$235 Monthly
Zoom meeting
Group of up to 8 women (same as Group)
+4 individual sessions (once per week)
30 minutes each session
Accepts major credit cards, debit cards, apple pay. Can accept bank transfers at request
**Once you sign up, your plan will auto renew monthly until cancelled. Your price stays the same until you end the mentoring services, even if I change my starting prices. Unless you change to a different plan
**Cancel anytime with 30 day notice. TERMS & CONDITIONS
FREE DISCOVERY CALL
Interested in Mentoring services but still aren't sure?
Or need someone to talk to that understands?
I'm here to help!
A Discovery Call is a FREE one hour call with me.
This can be via phone call or zoom meeting. Which ever you prefer.
I like to do a Discovery Call to get to know you better before you start mentoring services.
I want to know your needs so that I can provide the best solution for you and your situation. Let me know more about you and I will do my best to help. I am here to listen to YOU!
No requirements to sign up.
What is different about traditional recovery methods?
Betrayal trauma is a unique type of trauma and has a unique way of recovery for successful healing.
Traditional methods have about a 3-5% success rate.
Mentoring success rate is about 50%.
Typically the church leaders are not betrayal trauma informed. They care however, they are unaware of the direction & support needed.
Intensives are great but...
They can be very costly and it can be hard to travel and be away for the time needed.
You still need specific betrayal trauma support and guidance after the intensive if you can go.
When betrayal, addiction, abuse is present in a relationship/marriage, working on the relationship without addressing the specific recovery for betrayal trauma and the addiction or abuse can cause more damage to both partners and the relationship.
Many traditional counselors & therapists are not betrayal trauma informed.
There are not very many betrayal trauma informed specialists.
There are not very many sex addiction informed specialists.
Mentoring is a much more supported and guided approach to healing.
Mentoring does not always replace counseling. That depends on your needs. Most women will do well with Professional Certified Mentoring on its own. Some may need extra support in a specific area that needs a specialized counselor or therapist, and they will take their journey with a mentor and for a period of time have a counselor too. Some examples may include EMDR sessions or extra expert PTSD knowledge or extra expert knowledge about a specific childhood trauma.
More about Certified Professional Mentoring™ and how it works as a solution explained in this video by
Covenant Eyes: An interview with Michael Leahy from BraveHearts.
Michael explains mentoring as the new path to recovery.
FAQ
Got a question? I'm here to help.
If you have a question that is not listed, please don't hesitate to contact Allison.