Betrayed.
Abused.
Wife of addict.
It is traumatic. I get it. I have been there too.
Layers of Deep pain.
Everything Shattered.
Seems so Foggy.
I see YOU. I hear YOU. I understand your pain.
I am glad you are here. This is a safe place for you.
It's NOT Your Fault.
It was NOT Your Choice.
You Are Not Alone.
This Crisis needs immediate attention.
YOU DESERVE TO HEAL
Really!! I know that YOU are so worth it!
You are more precious than GOLD!
If you are tired of the overwhelming pain and the dance with dysfunction and want to know how to get to a healthier way of living;
Whether you want to stay in your relationship, leave your relationship or have no idea what you want to do with your relationship....
It's time to Heal Your Heart!!
There is a Healing Journey you can take.
Let me guide you out of the dark tunnel and into the light of Jesus Christ to achieve Truth, Safety, and Peace!
You can heal one step at a time. I can walk with you.
Please don't go through this this alone.
YOU can be BRAVE even while you feel scared!!
Let me help you get there.
Hello! I'm Allison.
I'm so very sorry that this happened to you. And I am very glad you are here.
Whether you have been betrayed by your husband's (or partner's) porn use, affair(s), physical and/or emotional abuse or you are living with an addict of any kind or an Intimacy Anorexic®; I have deep empathy and compassion for what you are going through and what you are feeling. I understand the pain, confusion and dysfunction all of these situations cause. It is very hard and it is overwhelming & traumatizing. It effects all areas of your life.
I have been through it all. I learned how to heal through it. Now, I am trained and certified in betrayal trauma healing and the journey that is needed for healing your bleeding heart in all of these situations. I have taken this journey and I know it well; what to do AND what not to do. My passion is to guide you to Truth, Safety and Peace with the right type of help in a quicker, less painful way than I experienced. No matter where you are in your journey; No matter what he chooses to do; I am here to help you get your life back... body, mind, & soul!
I would be honored to be your guide and walk with you as you heal. I will hold your hand every step of the way!
How can I help you heal?
While there is no easy, quick fix and we all keep growing for a lifetime, I can help you heal your wounded heart in a quicker amount of time with the right type of trauma help.
Certified Professional Mentor™
As a Certified Professional Mentor™, I am an expert trail guide on a path that is very familiar to me.
I am trained and Certified through BraveHearts University.
Trained in the proven mentoring model based on 10 years of mentoring experience that has guided hundreds of people to freedom in sexual addiction and betrayal trauma.
Trained to help you overcome major life issues to live a joy-filled life that God desires with a method that has been proven to work.
Currently I am continuing my education with AASAT training.
I also have referrals of other Certified Professional Mentors™ who have success working with purity and healing for men who are sex/porn addicts or Intimacy Anorexia and can work with your husband, if desired.
First Hand Experience
I have had 10+ years of experience leading groups of women for abuse & spouse/partner/loved one of addicts. I have also led groups for single moms through the church.
I understand the trials, dysfunction and pain of abuse, betrayal trauma, being a spouse of an addict and relational brokenness first-hand on a deep personal level.
My personal betrayal experience includes betrayal from family, friends, spouse, church. Many types of betrayal with personal & financial from childhood through adulthood.
My abuse experience includes physical, sexual, emotional, mental and spiritual abuse.
I also have first-hand experience of healing from each betrayal, including physical, sexual abuse and betrayal and deception with multiple addictions from my first marriage and healing from divorce and PTSD.
As well as healing from current husband's betrayal with sex/porn addiction, intimacy anorexia®, and multiple addictions along with emotional abuse.
Through the years, I have received much harmful advice. The healing that came from the right help was significant and transformational for me. I am passionate about getting you the specific help you need to heal your wounded heart.
Faith Based
You are God's child, wonderfully and fearfully made, He has so much more for your life. He is a loving and healing God. He has something better for you.
I understand the questions you may have about God...
- Where has God been this whole time?
- How could God let this happen to me/us?
- Why won't God answer my prayers?
- Does God really Care?
Most of the women that experience betrayal have these questions at one point. I know I did at one point as well. We can explore these questions and any other questions you may have together. I will meet you where you are at.
God has a beautiful way of taking the most tragic circumstances and pain and making something so amazing and wonderful - your life becomes more than you could ever have imagined!
I have not only seen this, I have experienced it and it is breathtaking in the most beautiful way!
"For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future."
JEREMIAH 29:11
Convenience for you, because YOU deserve it!
Go through your Healing Journey with less stress...
No Travel Required
- Conveniently and confidentially meet via zoom from any location
- Save time and money without driving back and forth to sessions
- In person meetings only available upon request in Grand Forks, North Dakota.
Affordable
- Convenient with 1 affordable monthly fee you get not 1 but
4 sessions
with a plan that fits your needs best.
- Start with a
FREE Discovery Call!
- Low resource costs with typically just 2 books to get you through the first 12-16 months (slightly can vary depending on where you are in healing- I will always help keep costs low)
- Free resources along the way
- Free, Private community (Coming Soon!)
Road Map
- Convenient, customized road map to meet your unique needs
- Know where you are with the 4 stage Healing Road Map; Hopeful, Gutsy, Braveful, Heroic
**(4 stages from BraveHearts)
- Receive tools you need at just the right time
- Weekly lessons to keep you moving forward without the guess work of what you need to learn next
- Weekly Check in to keep accountable and see growth along the way
Start Right Away
- Conveniently get help right away.
- Even when waiting for a group to start; I make sure I can still help you each week before it starts (no extra cost)
No matter what he chooses to do, I am here for you to get your life back!
You can get your Life back!
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